Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Stop complaining about motherhood!

no one said it will be easy to take care of an infant

1. Millions of woman around the world go through labor pain, sleepless nights, sore breasts, fatigue, sore backs, bad mood, hair falling out, stress and many more things associated with labor, baby care, and parenthood in general. Every woman is unique and therefore we all have different experiences in all mentioned aspects. Stop complaining!
2. Every baby is different and therefore they all require different styles of care. There are general rules like, changing, feeding, and rocking but there are millions of other little things that every baby likes or dislikes. Get to know your baby, gain her trust and stop telling the world how complicated it is.
3. We all know what we will be going through but why some of us are simply dealing with it and some are whining about the difficulties with every day posts on social networks?
4. Remember the Twitt when you said how excited you are to be a parent? What happened after the delivery?
5. How about your Facebook status asking your baby to come out sooner because you cannot wait to squeeze him? Aren't you happy now? 
6. Remember your Pinterest photos of all the baby clothing you got, the room you decorated and pregnant photos your shared? Well, guess what, now you are sharing your complains...
7. There are moms our there who get help: cleaning services once a week, grandparents come to help out and cook food, laundry by the pounds ect., and they still complain that it is so hard to take care of a baby!
8. On a picture you see 3 generations of women who clean, cook, do grocery shopping, laundry and take care of more than one baby without any help! Note: they still have time to look fabulous!
9. Get as much help as you can, but with or without help, please stop complaining about motherhood.
10. Parenthood is the mots rewarding job on a planet, do not complain - appreciate  There are plenty of people around the world that only dream about a family and you have one!

FYI: I know people that have twins and they do not complain. Taking care of twins is hard! I admire mothers that take care of twins, look and feel great and are simply happy in their motherhood - that is the way it is suppose to be!


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